You know the old adage, "you
can't teach an old dog new tricks" -- well it's not always
true.
In 1991, I retired from my secretarial
job with a government agency at the age of 70. Just prior to that
time, computers were installed in each office, but no Internet.
I tried to talk them out of giving me one, for I'd look up to
see people standing in the doorway watching how fast my fingers
flew over the keyboard of my electric typewriter. I didn't need
a computer, I thought. Of course I had to get one, and was just
beginning to feel a little comfortable with the program I'd learned
when I decided to retire.
Not
having a typewriter at home I felt I should get my own computer.
I only needed it for writing letters and the stories I hoped might
someday get published, so a simple word processing program would
be adequate. I'd already mastered that at the office.
But I hadn't counted on my kids
ganging up on me, telling me how wonderful the Internet was, and
look at all the time I now had to "surf the Net"- I
was fast learning a new lingo. No, I said, leave me alone. I'm
happy with what I have. I was extremely reluctant to make the
change, but finally, mainly to get them off my back, I agreed.
And so Internet entered my senior
life.
At first it made me very nervous,
so I didn't use it much. Word processing was fine - this other
new-fangled device I didn't like. But I figured I should learn
it, for I knew I couldn't spend time calling up one son after
another for instructions on how to do it correctly. They'd get
really irritated with me over that.
I knew, too, they were all a little
disappointed that mom wasn't doing more with this wonderful contrivance
they'd installed for her. What they weren't taking into account
was how far I'd already advanced.
My first recollection of a new-fangled
device, though I'm sure we never called it that, was standing
in the sitting room of our small house in London, England, listening
through earphones to our new crystal radio. Only one person at
a time could listen. The year was 1927. After we emigrated to
the States we acquired a large radio/victrola, and later a black
and white, and eventually color TV. Now, I thought, I'm becoming
involved with another new-fangled device called the Internet.
After
deciding to become a secretary in 1940, I'd diligently learned
to type; this, of course, on a standard upright. After a few years'
break while rearing my children, I then re-joined the secretarial
work force. When I sat down to type my first document after being
hired, it was on an electric typewriter, which I'd never used.
I panicked, but by taking it slowly and getting the feel of it,
I finally mastered it. I would do the same with the Internet,
I thought, but I still wasn't comfortable with it.
One day all that changed.
Even though we came to the United
States when I was still young, I had many fond memories of England.
Each summer Mother, my brothers and I rode the train from London
to a little country town in the northern part of England, in the
Lake District, to spend the summer with my grandmother.
While seated at my computer one
day, I got brave and decided to do some exploring on my own. I
clicked on Kirkby Lonsdale, the place I knew and loved so well.
I discovered this country town, with fewer than 2,000 inhabitants,
had its own Web site.
When
pictures of Kirkby Lonsdale showed up on my monitor, I remembered
all those happy summers. For hours, it seemed, I was glued to
my monitor as picture after picture appeared. I was not just "seeing"
Kirkby Lonsdale, I was back again in this market town, so old
it is mentioned in the Domesday Book of 1086.
I "walked" to the center
of Kirkby Lonsdale and the town square, where each Thursday, the
local farmers gathered to sell their produce. I could remember
when there were few autos in the square, and they came in their
horse-drawn wagons. I noticed the ancient cross and the old Royal
Hotel remained.
The next picture on my monitor was
of the cobblestone street. Could that still be Mr. Richardson's
meat market on the corner? I wondered. My cousin Hilda and I used
to stand in the doorway for hours watching sheep and pigs being
slaughtered and then the carcasses were hung in the window. Wonder
how we all survived without refrigeration?
Just around the next bend I saw
my first picture show. I could see us climbing up the outside
wooden stairs and entering a small room. Here we'd pay a penny,
sit on hard-backed wooden benches, and watch a black-and-white
silent movie.
And
there was Mitchell Gate, the hilly street, in the middle of which
was Miss Dean's Sweet Shop, a wonderful place with rows of glass
jars filled with pink, red, green and yellow sweets. After spending
time deciding which ones I wanted, Miss Dean would take the jar
off the shelf, turn the metal top, pick up a large scoop and weigh
out my choice. Then she'd place the sweets into a small white
cone-shaped paper bag. She had a superb knack of twisting this
bag around and around so that none of the sweets fell out on my
way back to my grandmother's. Now sitting in front of my computer,
I could still taste the anise balls I loved so much.
The Lune River runs through the
town, and I enjoyed seeing a picture of the Devil's Bridge, which
spans it. Once, years ago, an old woman, who lived in the town,
needed to get across the Lune to the other side. One day the devil,
having learned of her desire, visited her and promised he would
build the bridge if she would give him the first living thing
that crossed over. The old woman agreed, so the devil built the
bridge, laughing to himself that he would now get possession of
her. But she outsmarted him, for when the bridge was completed
she sent her dog over, thus sparing her own life. That's the story
I was told of how the bridge got its name.
This was such an enjoyable outing
I was having from my home, and I was pleased I'd found this web
site, but would I have enough confidence do this again?
But
the one picture that convinced me that Internet indeed was great,
was that of St. Mary's, the 11th Century Norman Church where my
parents had been married. When I clicked onto that picture I fell
apart. Tears welled up in my eyes and spilled over.
I could hear the church bells ringing,
as they did each Sunday morning, always the same tune. My grandmother
told me they were saying, "Will you come to church? Will
you come to church?" I "walked" into this beautiful
old church, sat for a few minutes in the silence, and looked at
some of the original stone pillars that were still standing. The
sun was shining through the predominantly blue east window, casting
a lovely glow upon the pews. We attended church here faithfully
during the time we stayed with my grandmother.
I
now crossed through the churchyard, passing old graves, many of
former parish vicars, to the Brow, a resting spot overlooking
the Lune valley. I sat for a few minutes, enjoying this area called
"Ruskin's View." The writer, John Ruskin, who had once
visited here, said, "The valley of the Lune at Kirkby Lonsdale
is one of the loveliest scenes in England and therefore in the
world."
That did it - that was the turning
point for me. I was now "hooked" onto the Internet,
soaking up as much information and knowledge as I could absorb
- and all with just the flick of a finger. I couldn't believe
how wonderful it was.
As an octogenarian, I am no longer
able to travel as extensively as when I was younger. Instead I
continue to communicate by e-mail with travel friends around the
world. I can once again be standing in Trafalgar Square watching
the pigeons being fed.
I can climb up to the Great Wall
of China, or re-visit the countryside of New Zealand. I can take
the elevator to the top of the Eiffel Tower and see all of Paris
beneath; and I can look wondrously on the magnificence of the
Taj Mahal. I can shop at Harrods in London, and if I'm really
curious, I can click on how the "royals" are doing.
Often I wish I could reminisce about
those wonderful summer days with someone who could recall them
with me, but I'm the only one left in my immediate family. But
all I have to do now is click on this web site and once again
I'm transported back to those fun-filled days when I'd hike my
dress up, take off my shoes and socks, and, underneath the Devil's
Bridge, wade in the cool Lune River amidst the minnows and small
fishes.
And all it takes is a click on my
mouse.
Sometimes, if I occasionally get
a little frustrated when something I don't want appears on my
monitor, or I can't find the article I'm looking for, all I have
to do is gaze up at the wall next to my computer. There framed
for me by my son, are the Internet pictures of Kirkby Londsale
to remind me that this new-fangled device called the Internet
is truly a wonderful thing.